Flying the Friendly Skies – Taking the Stress Out of Flying with Children

Flying the Friendly Skies – Taking the Stress Out of Flying with Children

On a good day, air travel is stressful. Bring children into the equation and you’re pretty close to reaching critical mass. We have experienced everything from meltdowns in the security line to one of the girls vomiting all over yours truly. Trust me when I tell you that shopping for clothes in an airport is not nearly as fun as it sounds. Aside from arriving early and loading the iPad with movies and games, there are other things you can do to make your travels less stressful.

Two in diapers? Carry on two diaper bags. This may sound silly, but when you are sitting at the front of the plane with your chosen child and your husband is at the back with his, the old diaper bag toss doesn’t work so well.

Snacks, snacks, snacks, pack snacks! Did I mention to pack snacks? The peanuts, pretzels and overpriced snack boxes will not cut it. So bring stuff they will want to eat to avoid a tired, hungry, crabby meltdown. Also, bring a water bottle for your child (one with a sport top, so they have to suck to get the water out – great for blocked ears). Just be sure to empty the contents of the water bottle before going through security! Once on board, the flight attendants will usually put a “complimentary beverage” of your child’s choice in the bottle.

Non-electronic toys. Consider your seat-neighbors and consider these: activity books/coloring books, line free notebook paper for drawing, colored pencils or crayons, book(s) to read to your child. A small favorite stuffed toy and a “blankie.” My girls are able to fit their travel items including snacks (I told you about the snacks right?) into their old Benjamin backpacks.

Long layover and delays. Before you travel, do an Internet search to see if the airport(s) you are going to have child play areas. You may not feel like you have time to do this, but do it! There is nothing like letting your kids blow off steam before a long flight.

Checking all that baby stuff and those cursed baggage fees! Contact your airline to find out what are considered “baby items” that will fly for free! Don’t be afraid to planeside check your stroller. Do you know how big a BOB Duallie is? Well it’s a behemoth! And guess what, I have had zero problems taking it through security and checking it planeside.

Screaming children. There is no one magic trick for this situation. I have had two screaming at once for what seemed like hours! Add to this “good time” the people who are staring at you, willing you to quiet your child. For ears, you can try a pacifier, nursing, sucking on a bottle, or — if your child is older — a water bottle. Just do your best to keep cool. Pay no mind to the other people who look at you annoyed. Smile and just give your child love and comfort. Sometimes, that’s all you can do.

The Transportation Security Administration (TSA) also has more useful advice for parents on the website.

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